HAPPY BIRTHDAY OUR BEAUTIFUL JAYCI SHAWN!!!
I told you the story of how and when we found out I was pregnant with our second child.
Now, the rest of the story....
So this pregnancy was totally different then when I was pregnant with Cassi. Oh, I was sick again, but only this time, twice as sick. There were quite a few days in the first 16 weeks where I couldn't be out of bed for very long. Thank god we have the supportive family we do, and we relied on them quite often to take care of our little Cassi Lynn. After the sickness tho, I felt probably the best I have felt in my life, physically, mentally and emotionally. I even carried this baby totally different(I didn't feel like a water balloon). But, oh the heartburn. And you know what they say. Heartburn means lots of hair(whoever THEY are). Anyways, this pregnancy was so different, that I was pretty certain we were going to have a boy. I think everyone was convinced we were having a boy. Even our doctor thought so. That is, everyone except, Mother Teresa. Pretty much from the start, my mom would say "I don't know. I have a feeling that you are going to have another girl". Anyone that knows my mom, knows she gets these 'feelings' and quite often, like it or not, she is right.
So, it's my birthday, August 9th, 1993 and I go to visit my doctor. I am very uncomfortable at this point. He examines me and decides there is a lot of pressure and tells me to meet him at the hospital at noon(my due date was actually the 16th). So I go home and Shawn and I pack some things for Cassi, drop her off at my mom's and head to the hospital. How cool is this. I am going to have our baby boy on my birthday!!! Things don't go exactly as planned.
After spending my entire birthday in the hospital, I am finally rushed into the delivery room just before 12:30am on August 10th. Yep, passed my birthday. This little fart needs to have his own birthday! And now he is in such a hurry to see the world, that he can't even wait for the doctor(doc arrived about 5 minutes too late). So at 12:35am, here he is, only I hear the nurses say "It's a girl". WHAT??? Are you kidding me??? A girl??? Holy cow, Grandma's feeling pulls through again. But what an amazing moment, to say the least. We had another beautiful baby daughter, who weighed 6lbs 3 oz. Oh, and she had a head FULL of dark hair(guess THEY were right about the heartburn).
I was absolutely surprised. Delighted, but surprised. I was so certain we were having a boy. So certain in fact, that we didn't really have a girl's name picked out. Oh, there were a lot of names that we liked but this was going to be our Tyler James. There was one name that had been stuck in my head ever since Cassi was just a baby and I always thought, if I had another daughter, I would choose that name. I ran it passed Shawn, and we agreed. I know! Amazing, isn't it!! Haha! Anyways, Jayci Shawn Wittmier was the name. Although at one point I overheard Shawn tell someone her name was Jayci Lee Shawn so I asked him where the 'Lee' came from. Well, he wasn't quite sure. Still in shock I guess. Jayci Shawn she was!!! And she was beautiful. We couldn't wait to take her home and begin our lives as a family of four. It has been an absolute joy ever since, having Amazing Jace in our lives.
This is how I am choosing to remember August 10th. One of THE BEST days of my life!!!
Love Star
Happy Happy Birthday my dear Jayci Shawn. You may never know how much you have taught me in life but I thank you! And I thank God for You!!!!!
Love Mom
xoxoxo
Monday, August 9, 2010
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Happy, Happy Birthday, Jayci.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your day. Raise a little H...! Have fun.
And remember... We all love you.
It's your B/D...you can text as much as you want...( up to $3.00).
Nice day here again. Yesterday the temp. only got to 33. Sure hope it warms up today.
You take care and have a grrreeeaaat day.
Love you lots,
Uncle Jack & Aunt Jacki
Happy Birthday Jayci.........
ReplyDeleteUncle Jack beat me to the blog for both your mom and your birthdays but I too want to wish you a very Happy 17th birthday!
What an amazing journey you've had in the past year and you've traveled it with such amazing grace and such a positive attitude.....You have been an inspiration to all who love and care about you.What you have endured in the past year makes all our aches and pains seem so trivial so we just think about you and "suck it up" and carry on.
Hope you had a great birthday yesterday Star...we are proud of all of you who have been on this journey with Jayci and have made her "trip" that much easier to bear.
The videos..........WOW......you make the word BELIEVE come to life!It was so great seeing your accomplishments thus far Jayci.
Keep on keepin on little one and continue to believe.....you've certainly made a believer out of us,With the right attitude and determination,anything is possible as you've certainly proven so far....
Love you Honey and enjoy your day!
Aunt Jacki
PS....Never doubt the wisdom of mother Teresa....her instincts are usually bang on so everyone best listen to her.
Happy Birthday Jayci, love and hugs from us all
ReplyDeleteMurray, Jenn and Rachel
To my #1 Hero in life: HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
ReplyDeleteHope you have a great day and enjoy the game tonight!
Love Mel Stevenson a.k.a. Melvis
Happy Birthday Jayci Shawn have a great day . WE are all so proud of you and what you have done in the past year. Talk to you soon
ReplyDeleteLove Grandpa & Grandma Wittmier
XOXOXO
Great story Star and a great way to remember the sparkplug in our lives,come to think of it I think Jayci's mother was also referred to as the sparkplug at one time, anyway H B Jayci and enjoy the ball game.
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY JAYCI! Hope you have a great day! We have watched the videos - not once - but many times! They are great and so are you! Thanks for posting those as we love to hear about how you are doing - but also love to see what great things are happening in "not so sunny California". Keep up the great work and see you soon!
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Happy belated birthday Mom and Happy Birthday Jayci! Getting my haircut today so I look pretty when you get back. Miss you!
ReplyDeleteLove Gizzy
Happy 17th Birthday Jay Bird! Love ya and can't wait to see you. Take care and have a super fun day!
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday Jayci and happy belated birthday Starla! Hope you're having a great day!
ReplyDeleteThe Hovdestads
Happy Birthday Jayci!! We have been thinking of you all and watching all the video's..your progress is amazing Jayci. It brings a happy tear to our eyes. Take some time and relax!
ReplyDeleteThe Gerings
Happy Birthday Jayci. We are always thinking and rooting for you. We hope you have a great day!
ReplyDeleteLove,
Auntie Brenda & Uncle Lorne